Category: ThisWorld

The Eyes that See: One Way to Use Your Eyes

by Deon Akintomide | Jan 9, 2023

Every violent, narcissistic and insensitive spouse I’ve counselled always thought their partner was the problem. They aren’t pretending; they are sincere.

DISCERN THIS TIME…

by Deon Akintomide | Mar 26, 2020

Please read this with me. Slowly. “And He said to the crowds, “When you see a cloud...

DEFLECTION

by Deon Akintomide | Nov 11, 2019

It is so much easier to recognize and magnify other people’s faults while glossing over our own and excusing them. Many even project their faults onto others and then start to attack those people.

BROKEN HEARTS AND BROKEN HOMES (1)

by Deon Akintomide | Oct 23, 2019

Marriage doesn’t heal sick and broken hearts, it accentuates their weaknesses. Marriage is for many people the crucible in which the impurities of their hearts are brought out.

It sometimes happens that some men, through their ignorant arrogance, step out from under the protective goodness of God that is available to both saints and sinners alike. Then the devil is just too happy to shoot them down.

RAISED TO BE DUMB

by Deon Akintomide | Oct 4, 2019

Teach them communication skills. Teach them to see people as people and not as things. Encourage them to look people n the eyes when talking with them. Tell them to learn to smile and be polite.

TWO CLUELESS PARENTS AND THEIR BRAT

by Deon Akintomide | Sep 16, 2019

The way I see it, more and more people are getting married without knowing the first thing about parenting. One of the reasons for this is that most of them weren’t parented well to begin with, and so are largely clueless about the subject.